This book was a mega-hit some 10 years ago, and I’m glad, because it really is a profound meditation on aging and how we make decisions about elderly and end of life care. The main thrust of the book is, first, that we should focus on quality of life rather than on extending it asContinueContinue reading “Being Mortal, Atul Gawande”
Author Archives: Kasia Bartoszynska
Crush, Ada Calhoun
This book (especially hot on the heels of some scathing reviews of other books) made me ponder if all writing about polyamory is cringe, and what is that makes it so. My hunch is that writing about love or desire can seem profoundly narcissistic, especially when it’s about getting “more” than what is socially sanctioned?ContinueContinue reading “Crush, Ada Calhoun”
To 2040, Jorie Graham
This is a deeply unsettling book. It reminded me a bit of Eleanor Davis’ work because of how it imagines what apocalypse will feel like in these terrifyingly concrete ways that also have a sort of manic playful quality (though Graham is mostly grim). Both authors explore the contours of a dire future with anContinueContinue reading “To 2040, Jorie Graham”
Borderlands/La Frontera, Gloria Anzaldua
When I (re)read this with a group of Ukrainian students last year, I did so with a kind of speculative curiosity, wondering if and how they’d connect to it, whether it would be relevant to them. This time around was different, in that I had a kind of template for how they’d react, and yetContinueContinue reading “Borderlands/La Frontera, Gloria Anzaldua”
How Should a Person Be? Sheila Heti
I was surprised by how much my class enjoyed this novel, because it’s weird and formally complex and fairly opaque, and the narrator is often annoying, or at least, doing blatantly stupid things. I think Heti really strains relatability with this one, but I could be totally wrong, because my students did in fact seemContinueContinue reading “How Should a Person Be? Sheila Heti”
The World Keeps Ending, and the World Goes On, Franny Choi
I first heard the title poem of this collection during a book launch held over Zoom during pandemic lockdown, and it lingered with me for days — “I was born from an apocalypse and have come to tell you what I know” — it seemed so prescient (this was published in DECEMBER 2019?!), but then,ContinueContinue reading “The World Keeps Ending, and the World Goes On, Franny Choi”
The All of It, Jeannette Haien
Slender novel by a relatively obscure woman author, re-released with a foreword by Ann Patchett and a blurb saying that it’s a “quiet little stunner” — sounds like exactly my cup of tea, no? But maybe I set my expectations a bit high. It was perfectly fine — engaging prose, vivid characters. The profound moralContinueContinue reading “The All of It, Jeannette Haien”
Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, Gabrielle Zevin
I am fascinated by (and somewhat envious of?) couples who regularly read the same books. Awhile ago, I was talking to a friend who said that when he and his wife go on vacation together, they bring a few books that they share — reading one at a time and then passing it on toContinueContinue reading “Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, Gabrielle Zevin”
Bob Trevino Likes It
Went and saw this sort of knowing that I was likely in for some FEELINGS, but a blurb said something about how it was a balm for these difficult times and I was like yes please! And it is, if by balm you mean a good cathartic sob fest. Maybe I’m just emotionally fragile atContinueContinue reading “Bob Trevino Likes It”
Character Limit: How Elon Musk Destroyed Twitter, Kate Conger & Ryan Mac
I don’t generally like a snarky tone in non-fiction books, but in this case, it felt deeply cathartic. I picked this up at the recommendation of my friend Alexis, the idea being that it is helpful to have more detailed information about what Musk did during his (disastrous) Twitter takeover, given that he seems toContinueContinue reading “Character Limit: How Elon Musk Destroyed Twitter, Kate Conger & Ryan Mac”